Introduction / Summary (2018): Hello and welcome to our Sexuality pages. While this is not a pornographic site, it is provocative - founded upon what people search on the Internet (which is very interesting!). We then relate this to our biological and cultural evolution.
Sex is obviously important to people - and if you want to improve your sexual relationships then knowing the truth about our human evolution is the best foundation. By opening our minds to a greater diversity of behaviors, this knowledge will help you creatively cultivate healthy pleasurable moral attitudes and sexy smutty relationships (free from religious guilt & cultural myths).
Support an open honest discussion on the truth of our sexual evolution and behaviour. If you support sex positive, moral, informed sexual behaviour please share this knowledge. (These pages have a diverse collection of fascinating information relating to our human sexual evolution so people will appreciate it - see our 'nice letters' page!).
Sincerely, Karene.
"It is not enough to conquer; one must learn to seduce." (Voltaire) - "Desire is the essence of a man." (Spinoza)
BDSM
Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism,
Masochism. Sexual Fetish Stories, Gay, Lesbian
BDSM Definition and Behaviours
The abbreviation of "BDSM" describes the following human sexual behavior:
* Bondage & Discipline (B&D)
* Domination & Submission (D&S)
* Sadism and Masochism (or sadomasochism) (S&M)
Many of the specific practices in BDSM if performed in a nonsexual context, could be considered unpleasant, undesirable or abusive. e.g. pain, physical restraint and servitude are traditionally inflicted on persons against their will and to their detriment, in BDSM, these activities are engaged in with the mutual consent of the participants, and for mutual enjoyment.
This emphasis on informed consent and safety is also known as SSC (safe, sane and consensual), though others prefer the term RACK (risk-aware consensual kink). In essence, both terms refer to all participants acknowledging and accepting some level of risk.
Some further ideas about BDSM:
It may or may not involve sex of any kind or sexual role playing.
How dominant or submissive a person may be in real life does not necessarily
indicate which role they will play in a scene.
Edited from https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM
Bondage.com
Bondage.com is a slick, artistic looking website. It seems to be affiliated with other big websites - Adult Friend Finder, Cams.com.
From the website: Bondage.com
is the world's largest BDSM community and the most exciting bondage and
fetish website. Register for your free account and get the ultimate in bondage
and fetish pictures and video, BDSM personals, stories, and BDSM / fetish
community forums.
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BDSM & Alternate Lifestyles Resource
Links and information on bondage, alternative lifestyles, personals, gay and lesbian resources.
https://www.bdsm.com/
BDSM Erotic Stories: Domination & Submission
From the website: 'What you will find here are stories about dominant Masters and Mistresses and the submissive women who serve them as slaves. My writings contain nudity, bondage, BDSM, discipline, coercion, sex and the subjugation of initially-unwilling captive females.
Please note that the writings on this site are intended as pure fantasy and do not reflect the reality of a loving and consensual Dominant / submissive relationship. Neither I nor the Webhost condone or encourage in any way the enforced or unwilling enslavement of any person, male or female and would support the strongest possible action against anyone who attempted to achieve this.'
https://www.talkds.co.uk/GeetwoEroticStories
Fear and Excitement
"The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything." (Friedrich Nietzsche)
Studies show that being scared is a turn on (we are more likely to think of sex or act in a sexual manner).
There seems to be a relationship between fear, excitement and rape in war. This makes sense in terms of evolution where tribal fighting was a significant part of our ancestral past - and women are the spoils of war. So this should be explored as one causal factor in the evolution of rape.
Pleasure and Pain
What is the relationship between pleasure and pain?
Creative Imagination and Fantasy
By understanding our true sexual evolution we realise a variety of sexual behaviours that can be cultivated with your partner (or many partners) without shame. Variety is the spice of life!
Culture of BDSM - Community, History, Art & Statistics
'Swan' from the Heron Clan wrote to me about their BDSM blog:
Hello Karene,
I visited the Wave-structure-of-matter website today and found it interesting
and compatible with my personal view/understanding of the universe and reality.
As I looked at your sexuality/fetish page, I was struck by a "gap"
in the offerings there, and thought you might find it interesting to look
into the blog that our family keeps.
We are a polyamorous and BDSM triad. The three of us have lived together
as an intentional and committed family for about five years now, practicing
both fidelitous, committed polyamory and BDSM as a sensual/erotic lifestyle
orientation. We are mature, college educated professionals, who all contribute
to our community, while living a hidden lifestyle that our culture censures
and disdains.
All the best,
Sue (Swan)
Deviant Desires
'Nothing is sacred and anything can be sexualized, from Disney characters
and B-Movie monsters to baked beans, latex birthday balloons and Thanksgiving
dinner. We believe in actively participating in creating our own erotic
entertainment, forging new art, original literature and fluid sexual identities.
Popular assumptions about what constitutes a healthy sexual fantasy or sex
life should be questioned. This does not mean that we believe that 'anything
goes' or that there are no valid limits to human sexual expression.'
Read More: Deviant Desires: Kinky Sexual Fantasies & Fetish
Fetish Personals: Bondage, BDSM, Alternative Sexual Community
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Analyse any human emotion, no matter how far it may be removed from the sphere of sex, and you are sure to discover somewhere the primal impulse, to which life owes its perpetuation. ... The primitive stages can always be re-established; the primitive mind is, in the fullest meaning of the word, imperishable. ... Mans most disagreeable habits and idiosyncrasies, his deceit, his cowardice, his lack of reverence, are engendered by his incomplete adjustment to a complicated civilisation. It is the result of the conflict between our instincts and our culture. (Sigmund Freud)
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